Syncronized option handling with unix start script. Now kills mysql when the exiting and before running self tests. Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/cmdline.cpp:1.6 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/cmdline.h:1.5 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/enumproc.c:1.1 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/enumproc.h:1.1 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/roxen.cpp:1.4 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/startdll.cpp:1.7 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/startdll/startdll.dsp:1.3 Rev: server/tools/ntroxen/version.h:1.6